"LOVE","PYAAR","ISHQ","PREMA","KADHAL","LIEBE","AMOR""AMOUR","AMORE",愛","爱".....no matter which language you say it in.....it brings the same feeling in anyone's heart.Love - The BASE of any relationship,the base on which the whole universe is formed, its LOVE that keeps everyone and everything going.
People talk about different forms of LOVE.....but i dont see any difference,what i mean is...love can be only of one kind........what i feel is that LOVE is "THE FEELING OF CARING".......how much you care about someone or something is thatmuch you love that person,no matter how is it.....it may be your Parents,Friends,bf/gf or anyone....like HUGH GRANT said in the movie "LOVE ACTUALLY"...... "LOVE is all around" ......its just for you to notice.......
Remember the last time you hear or read about an accident of some stranger on radio or Newspaper and said....poor them...that shows your love for those poeple...who you dont even know...........or remember the last time your parents told you not be out at late nites or take care while you r on a trip or ask you not to get drenched in rain........it shows their love towards you........
Its quite natural for anyone to love anyone..........the whole feeling of hatred too is a result of love.........may be love for something may result in hatred towards something esle...........like say.....the LOVE towards my Mother Nation India makes most of the people hate Pakistan....but if you relax and think of it.....it is someone else's Mother Nation too.......they love it the same way we do our's........but the whole reason of the feeling of hatred is becos of some selfish people who for their own good take advantage of thie feeling of LOVE for bad cause and which results in the wars and stuff.........
I believe that there will be no reason for you to hate something or someone unless and until u r being selfish.....or you love something else or someone else........thats what all it is.......
So my Dear FRIENDS ........what i say is.......LIFETIME is a small period......too short to waste it in conflicts and wars and hatred feelings.....so LOVE all and be good always...if possible help everyone who is in need of it.......
Thats all i have to say guys....hope you all are having a wonderful NEW YEAR.....
Have a Nice Time and Take Care
Saran
"Aspiring Astronaut"
Nice piece sarana.... And a very deep thinking about explaining how hatred is also a distortion of love !!
ReplyDeletei wud like to add a few things....
Well... even 'selfishness' is LOVE ... Love to fullfill one's sensory desire, or Love to satisfy one's own ego ( like..... when one wants get a big position, command etc...)..... When this ego grows larger.... say one includes their GF/BF or parents or friends in this circcle of 'ego'.... then one wants.... well being of all these people... if it grows even further.... say their own colony... then one wants well being of all people of the whole colony... going further.. the whole district.. the whole state..the whole country... and so on..All these are distortions of love....
Undistorted love is... the love for well being of everyone ... by everyone i mean.. everyone in the universe...... be it our friends,parents,GF/BF, our neighbours,our countrymen, plants, animals !!!! Everyone !!!! Without any prejudice !
Hi Saran,i read each n every word carefully.Its Good.
ReplyDeleteLove is God(from Bible).
Faith is God(Basic thing before listening to any religion or philisophy,or to any person who says not to ask any Q's when he says something). Are "Love is Faith","Faith is Love" true?
I will remember these words of urs as one concluding page in the midst of a small lifetime.
But a small add-on saran,"Love for itself is not a starting point or basic feeling.First, its the EGO which forms through time from the days we are born, on that forms a cover of diff habits,character,philosophy of life,some likes n likenots,along with physical identity etc; and then when another being 'recognizes' these things,the person's/being's attentions starts, n then if the recognizing person/being appreciates his/her likes n likenots,EGO feels happy,and another basic feeling of unsatisfiably urge for anything for the humans(i dont know about other beings) pushes him/her to want more of that same ting of happy feeling forever, n if both X n Y be like that together for some time, a feeling of Love comes out. But I wanna say that , in these steps i have said above, some or all might be missing for the beautifull feeling of LOVE to emerge.[all these steps miss out in LOVE at FIRST SIGHT sorts of,but they will be checked after]
LOVE should give the person boundless happiness with only one horizon, n never should bind the other person in any manner, but this happens most of the time.Then comes the bad feelings ie jealously,selfishness,etc..and ending up in deriving the reasonless HATRED feeling.I have seen in many people that they forget even the reason why they are hating someone or something.Ridiculous!!This happens only when reasoning happened in the mind , the concluded part was given to heart and never even try to think again.'Heart can withhold feelings of any depthness but can never think'..................goes onnnn..
Anyway,I just got a chance to tear one page of mine and do some collaging stuff in ur blog.
urs ever well wishing Rishi